cogito ergo sum

What a horrible thing you do to yourself when you blame someone else for just about anything.  The minute you blame someone else, you take away responsibility from yourself.  That might actually sound like a relief, but it is not quite.  Responsibility is control.  It is the ability to respond.  It is your ability to correct whatever went wrong.

When we blame someone else, we give up the ability to correct what went wrong.  And we risk having the wrong remain.

Instead of blaming, you must take responsibility, coz actually…, you can’t blame anything for the bad thing that happened.